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HadtobeHere turns everyday places and your events (public and private) into intentional connection spaces — without turning your social life into a social media story.

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Open the app and see nearby events (public and private) and local third spaces (cafes, restaurants, bars and gyms) where connection is quietly welcomed.

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You choose when and how you’re open to connection and conversation.

No one else can see you unless you opt in and make your presence known.

create your own events, in your own space, or at your favorite locations. invite guests. read the room.

designed with your real life in mind.

Here to make presence-based social connection easy again.

serendipity meets structure.

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